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Reply to "Feeling hurt when other people fall apart over their elderly ailing parents while mine died young"
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[quote=Anonymous]You can feel hurt for your personal loss, but it's probably better to stay silent when someone is managing their 90 year ol mother's surgery for an intestine snip and has to keep rescheduling because the current care team in her home is not trained to care for that kind of recovery and they need to be trained and willing to care for that wound. Also in the weekly shop her mom wants tomatoes but is not allowed to use knives. You probably shouldn't say "I WISH I had a mom to do that for". It's just different circumstances and both are very very difficult and we all need to be kind. [/quote]
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