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[quote=Anonymous]You can’t make them move out or get help. But you can do things to make your life easier once disaster strikes.

Make sure they have Wills, advance medical directive, etc. Meet with an an attorney that understands Medicaid in their state if you think they might need it in the future. Government does a 5 year look back and you don’t want to do something that affects Medicaid funding.

Make sure that your mom isn’t the person listed to legally make decisions for your Dad. Her dementia will only get worse and you want to be the one who makes decisions if he becomes incapacitated.

Make sure you have a list of their doctors and contact information. And have your parents sign a consent form that allows the doctors to speak to you. You will have to do this for each doctor.

Make sure you have all their bank account and credit card information and have you put on as an authorized person.

Do some visits to facilities near you in case they suddenly need to be moved into a place.

Good luck, it’s tough when parents don’t realize they are aging and don’t have to ability to make good risk calculations. [/quote]

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