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[quote=Anonymous]It's all such a mess, isn't it? You cannot force them to do anything, as you know. You can see if they will agree to an aging professional to check in. You can set your boundaries of what you will and will not do a lot of which will depend on what is going on in the family you created. You can explain all your concerns about health risks, finances, etc. Then you have to let go some. If you try to explain your concerns and try to get professional help and make clear your boundaries, then when the accident happens you will know you tried to prevent it. When the finances are lost or a mess and you have to hire people to sort it out, you will know you tried to prevent this.You can tell yourself they were living life on their own terms. Sometimes that ends up in earlier death or lost finances. This is what I learned, but hopefully someone here has some magically way to turn things around.[/quote]
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