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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just keep explaining why you feel the way you do. Do it in as calm of a tone as possible.

I don't believe in compromise when it comes to these things. If you don't want people there, you don't want people there-period. Sorry, whoever pushes the baby out gets to decide who is there while they are tired, bloody, and leaking fluids.

Yes, this is one time where it is about you and what you want. There will be plenty of time to compromise later. I wish people would stop being so pushy about who is at the delivery and home immediately afterwards. [/quote]

I also agree with this.  I'm also not comfortable having people around, and it was just DH and I for our first baby.  It will be just DH and I for the second.  The in-laws were more than welcome to come visit (LATER!).  They came for 2 weeks about a month after the birth.  My parents came a few weeks after also.

Nobody came to the hospital.  I would have been way too uncomfortable with that.  I don't hate my in-laws, I just wouldn't want anyone there at that time.

Sorry, OP that you DH isn't being supportive.  Hope it works out for you.  [/quote]

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