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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don’t reveal your gender and that shouldn’t matter but I kind of think it does. Statements like your partner made are like a brick wall that they build around you, you don’t do it for me anymore and no matter how I have tried to convince myself otherwise you still don’t do it for me anymore so stay in this box while I move on with my life.

If your wife has made the declaration that the spark is gone I think there’s a 90% chance that she stopped being in love with you about three years ago and I don’t think there is coming back from that. You could 20x your net worth and get matching flanks of visible serratus muscles and it wont do a thing.

Now if your husband has told you this then there are lots of things you can do to get his interest back but chances are he’s got his eyes on a future without you and unless done very carefully the improvements you make will come off desperate and be more repelling.

[b]Saying the spark is gone is the polite way of saying I don’t find you attractive at all and I’m done. You mentioned that lots has happened over the course of the past few years[/b] and if that’s because the lack of spark lead to some infidelity the resentment will be difficult to overcome.

It’s an awful situation and I’m sorry.   [/quote]

Or it’s saying I’m depressed and in mid-life crisis and I am looking for an explanation, or someone or something to blame, and you’re my dearest and nearest so I conclude it’s you. [/quote]

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