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[quote=Anonymous]I have a few.

These things were collected by your mother for her to enjoy. They did it! They did their job, so wonderfully. You have fond feelings for them because of that, but the dishes themselves are not her legacy. Her legacy is the joy and fun she found in collecting it and using it to host and celebrate her family and friends. The objects themselves are now severed from that legacy. You don’t have to keep them to keep the memory. I think keeping one or two pieces as a reminder is just right.

Their “value” isn’t that important. Remember that the price she paid isn’t necessarily relevant to the price they would cost now, and the prices you look up on eBay or whatever are retail prices. As a non-dealer, you should expect 25% of that or less unless you want to start a new job as a dealer and learn it from the bottom. Donating it is probably much easier and won’t “cost” you very much.

Re: the furniture. It’s very difficult to know what kind of spaces young adults will end up in and what will fit. It’s also very expensive to move furniture. I would keep anything a young adult wants NOW but let go of the rest and free your garage. [/quote]

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