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[quote=Anonymous]I suggest you plan on deleting this thread. But I’m a SAHM and I buy whatever I want. The money in our bank account is our money, not his, and he has no more say in what we do with it than I do. He has heard married men talking about money as though it gives the man more power in the marriage and it disgusts my husband. We have always, since before we were engaged, had frequent conversations about spending, saving, and earning and we are very much on the same page regarding financial goals. I imagine that helps us trust each other. I don’t think you can really know exactly whether or not, or how, the power dynamic would change if one spouse left the workforce, but maybe you can get clues based on conversations he has with others. And of course you should I be clear that it’s joint money, not just his. [/quote]
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