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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think that you're going to get out of this one gracefully. The best you can do is be civil but firm. "No, MIL, I am not comfortable with you coming to my house when I am not there. It is not fair to our nanny to have someone disrupting DS's routine." If you have a history of letting her come over when you are not there, or of staying there to babysit DS while you and DH go out, it will be harder to argue that she cannot come over while just the nanny is there, but I still wouldn't let her do it. If she will not agree to play by your rules, I see no reason for her to be able to spend time alone with DS at all. If she will not respect your authority as a parent, there is no reason to respect her "rights" as a grandparent. Period. Make sure your husband is on board, and have the conversation with her together.[/quote]
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