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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No big deal, OP. He can recuperate on his own. Ask her to drop by to help him.[/quote] As another person said, use his money to hire help. You cannot ask her to drop by to help him. That is free labor as she is not his spouse. I would show enormous gratitude for anything she does or offers to do. You are in the will, she is not. It's the same as a long term friendship. Be grateful for anything the friends do, but it is not their job to care for the parent. My own mother who is/was married to my dad tried to pawn off everything on me because she could not deal. She wanted to inherit, just not do the work. So we finally convinced her to spend his hard earned money on help.[/quote]
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