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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he’s not even asking for you, there is no reason to even consider it. [/quote] +1, this is about your mom, not about your uncle. I don't think you have a moral imperative to reconcile with him, and I have an inkling you don't either. Your opinion should be the determinative factor -- this is your choice. The issue is that your mom is pressuring you to do so, indicating that it's important to HER that you do it. If she gives you a hard time about this, tell her that you want to support her in her grief at losing her brother, and if there is anything you can do for her to help, you will. But you can't reconcile with your uncle for her -- that's about your relationship with him, and it's not up to her. Plus, as the PP points out, you an't reconcile with someone who doesn't want to reconcile with you.[/quote] Absolutely this! [/quote]
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