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[quote=Anonymous]My uncle (moms brother) has always been an angry, mean, racist, abusive a-hole. He is also disabled and has been most of his adulthood. He was a horrible emotionally abusive parent to my cousins, particularly the eldest whom now is his caretaker m. As an adult, I logically understand that he is depressed about his disability and has some undiagnosed antisocial personality disorder. The last time I saw him he was telling my 3 year old that “(race) are all (insert horrible words with cursing) and there should be (genocide).” This is the tip of a 70-year old iceberg. My mom has been urging me to reconcile. I freeze and go into panic thinking about it. Do I (morally) have to reconcile or am I justified to limit contact as much as possible? [/quote]
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