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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anyone been there? It feels like infertility is an endless road, but I’ve now got one cycle left and we’re out of money. I’ve known the time is coming and been trying to process but don’t know how. Harder still because I’ll never know if it’s a problem more money could solve. The idea that I’ll never have the family I envisioned, I don’t know how to move past that regret and disappointment. [/quote]

Sorry, OP. I was in your shoes. No insurance coverage; 100% OOP. Spending endless money on IVF cycles was not the bank accounts we were dealt in life. Difficult (mathematical odds) decisions needed to be made and we pivoted to DE for the better chance at a live birth. If that is still too rich for your blood, look into embryo donation/adoption.

Families are made in all kinds of ways. It might not be how I envisioned it, BUT I can tell you they were “mine” as soon as they were transferred into my uterus and I loved them ever since.

Best of luck figuring out what is next—whether that is your last cycle, closure with having done everything you could to have a family or whatever. Seek counseling to help move forward, if needed. [/quote]

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