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[quote=Anonymous]BG: our DD and her fiancée are both seniors in college and recently got engaged. DD is accepted into medical school and the fiancée into a top MBA school. Neither has debt from college. We will pay for DD medical school and his parents will pay for MBA school. Both families are well off with family all in the US. The fiancée’s parents are going to traditional route and want us to pay for our DD’s wedding. While we can, we also have a second DD and their’s is an only child. We also feel we are keeping the young couple out of debt (but so are they). I want to suggest we split the costs but I don’t want to offend them. DS says he and the fiancée will contribute but they don’t have much to contribute and we don’t want them to. The fiancée doesn’t want a fancy wedding but we both have big families. Should we ask the fiancée’s parents to contribute? How should we word it?[/quote]
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