Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Bored in marriage. Need advice?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Divorce, OP. You will never be happy in this marriage. You want different things, and seem to not be "proud" of your husband. (You mention having to push him to take classes, which I assume he did for you.) I broke up with my high school boyfriend a year or so into college because of stuff like this. He was great and never treated me badly- but I knew he didn't want the same things I did, and I knew if I went through college only to marry him at 25, never having been in another relationship, I'd regret it. You HAVE to be in other relationships- the good ones and the bad ones all teach you lessons in how to be a better partner, and to know what you really want and don't want. You have no concept of this because you married your first real boyfriend. It will hurt him. Get the idea that you don't want to hurt him out of your head, because it will hurt him like hell. But you will end up, both of you, miserable if you remain in a marriage where you are unhappy like this. He will know it, and it will destroy him to know that even though he's perfect on paper, it's not enough for you and never will be. You deserve to be happy, and he sounds like he would definitely make some woman very happy- but it's not you OP. And it's not ever going to be. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics