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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are your son's family and this is his special day.  It sounds like you are purposely not including any of Dad's family and that is not a good example for your son.  You email Dad saying you'd love to have them and that the cost of the meal is XXX and if they'd like to come, he can pay for the meal. Stop putting your child in the middle of your divorce.  Allow him to celebrate with all his family, not just yours.  If you are saying "our" families are going, then what exactly does that mean?  You and your husband only?  It should include Dad's family too.[/quote]

OP: I am very well including his father's family. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, they are all coming. He's known them for years. But he has never met his stepmother's family, he doesn't know them. Why should he be forced to have them at one of the most important days of his life? He hasn't bothered to introduce them to him, they've been here for months and now this?

I should not be forced to pay for people my child doesn't know. This will put me into another pay bracket, reception place has limited seating.

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