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[quote=Anonymous]My DH does this Lord of the Manor act, too. I feel helpless about it because he does do the heavy lifting with the cleaning, e.g. daily kitchen stuff, bathrooms, big time house maintenance, and the majority of the overall house drudgery. BUT he has major blind spots where overall organization and clean up as you go are concerned and is super sensitive to anything being pointed out to him, ever. The "he sucks the joy out of the room" phrase resonates so much with me. I find myself leaping up and trying to look busy when I hear him coming because I have started to fear his constant grousing so much. He also will not outsource any cleaning or home maintenance. Weekends are devoted to upkeep. No suggestions, only commiseration.[/quote]
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