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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do you assume grandma miscalculated? Maybe your bio grandfather was the worse of the two. [/quote]

Because I loved her, and since I will likely never know what led to the blip, I have decided not to demonize and reverse my opinion of her. [/quote]

I think this is some messed up thinking on your part.

It's very likely she knew she was pregnant and your grandfather and he knew as well.

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I am the first response. I would assume grandma made an educated decision, and chose the better option of the two suitors. If grandpa was a jerk, that could mean bio gramps was worse.

Of course there are other possibilities, none of which demonize your grandma (none that I can think of at least). [/quote]

True. But I've decided not to care about that part because it will lead me down a never-ending rabbit hole of dead ends. My dad insists that my mother died not knowing. So that part of the story I've decided to leave be. However, I'm intrigued with the new parts I can uncover. Plus, my mom died from breast cancer, and all these years we thought it was random since none of my aunts had it. Now, I would like to know if it's potentially genetically linked to this side.[/quote]

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