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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think it’s new to want an apology for a screw-up. Seeing and feeling sad for the pain another has gone through, regardless of the source, is a way to have a deeper connection with somebody.  I think it’s more socially acceptable to talk about it with others.

Same with appreciation for what you have done for others, but since adult children have become more firm about wanting apologies, I think there has been a backlash against that with parents saying “you want an apology? Well what about some appreciation for everything I did?” That has always been the case because people are just bad at conflict and relationships but it might be more prevalent now. It certainly is more visible. [/quote]

You don’t define pain or screwups. Nobody would defend the abusers, but there’s a lot of room for error beneath this. Yet somehow you jump to blaming parents because they’re “just bad at conflict.” Typical, and that’s probably exactly what OP is talking about. [/quote]

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