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[quote=Anonymous]The only child from BIL/SIL is well behaved, can sit silently for 1+ hr at mealtime, eat healthy & have all great interests (read books and play broad games). The big reason that she is used to be bored, bored to be the only child and bored with no summer camps/classes while both parents WFH. She is introvert, quiet and seems cannot make decision on her own. I have asked her what she likes, she just looks at her mom, and let her mom answers for her. They do strict parenting.

My 2 kids are not well behaved, cannot sit still for 1+ hr at mealtime (wiggle, talk  and leave seats), picky eaters and just want to play and busy. They are used to be busy and not bored by activities (summer camps, weekend class or screentime). When they are together, they can't be quiet and more less behaved. They are extrovert, funny and talkative. I am exhausted with 2 kids, so I do laid back parenting.

MIL/FIL did not say anything, but BIL commented that my kids were out of control. DH is mad of 2 kids' behaviors, and I got yelled at once we were home for my parenting. He said what our niece did so well at everything (behavior, hobbies, diet and such and such) compared to what our son did, and my boy is 6 months older. He is 7, and niece is 6.5. My another kid is 3.5. I had a screwed up new year eve & new year because of this. DH says niece is so well behaved and going to be successful. Our son is going to be a failure, and he should remember that thank you to his family gene, our boy has asd/adhd even though he is gifted. Niece is a normal kid. Even though niece is also a smart girl, my son's personality is more social/ charming and has board interests at everything. She is more controlled by her parents over her diet, interests and etc.

I just want to vent that I hate it whenever we meet for family event, and it made me feel suck up due to all those comments and  etc. I take my kids to all activities for the past few years for swimming/gym/soccer/chess club etc, and he did not even come once because he says that he does not care much about those. He blame me whenever our kids misbehave. I am not SAHM, and I earn as much as him. I hate it at every single family event for those negative comments. Don't people know the fact that it is easier to manage one kid than two kids![/quote]

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