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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I agree with those who say they’re emotionally exhausted after time with extended family. DH’s family is local so we’re always around them so their crazy has been "normalized." I’ve just had to deal with their sh!t as part of my regular life. So when DH is so judgmental when we’re around my family, it hurts. I’m already emotionally raw during these visits, but he just wants to emphasize that he doesn’t want to raise our kids in the way I was raised, or the way my sister is raising her kids, etc. Then I feel the need to stick up a little bit for my family so it turns into a shouting match. I’m just done, to be honest. I just want to live my life independent of his family and mine. I don’t want to spend the night at anyone’s house anymore. I just want to hotel or Airbnb. Funny thing is, I suggested this to DH in the past and his response- it would offend family members. Like I said, I’m done.[/quote]
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