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[quote=Anonymous]Not exactly the situation OP is referring to, but somewhat similar. My sibling and I both moved to the US in our 20s. Now our father is very sick - my sibling traveled to our home country since it seemed like our father's death was imminent. However, he recovered a bit, but is now again in the hospital and expected to die soon. Sibling feels stuck since no one is sure how long the process will take and they can't leave until our father actually passes on. I was not able to travel due to circumstances beyond my control. However, sibling harbors enormous resentment against me since they feel like they had to do all the heavy lifting and makes sure they let me know every single day. It's an awful situation - even though I have been unable to travel for very valid reasons (and sibling knows this), I will carry enormous guilt for the rest of my life. I also feel like my relationship with my only sibling will never be the same again.[/quote]
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