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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t think seeking comfort from people who aren’t kind to you is going to help you find peace. Either your dad was so bad they were willing to cut ties with a beloved sister/daughter and a child to get him out of their lives, or they’re so controlling they’d rather not have their sister/daughter and niece/granddaughter in their lives if they come with a husband/father they dislike. Either way, it’s going to be almost impossible to rebuild a healthy relationship with those people at this point in your life, and definitely not in time to help you through this crisis. I’d recommend therapy, grief counseling, church if you’re religious (I’m not but religious but it’s an instant community if you find the right fit), and choosing your new family because the old one wasn’t there for you. It’s hard when you’re collateral damage in someone else’s fight. I’m really sorry you experienced that, and that your mother is sick, and for the loss of your father. [/quote]
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