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[quote=Anonymous]My husband and I had planned to use my mom’s middle name for our daughter’s middle name. It’s also my grandma and great grandma’s middle name, and my other great grandma’s first name (never met her). Understandably, my mom was upset when I told her that we are considering changing her middle name. We don’t want to use the name anymore for several reasons. 1. My mom has been toxic and verbally abusive throughout my life, especially during my pregnancy. I initially thought it would be nice to give her a family name, now I’m just not so sure. I’m trying to break generational curses 2. The more we look at and say her name, we don’t think it flows 3. Every time we tell someone her name, they assume or ask if we are Catholic The people pleaser in me just wants to keep it, but my husband and I really want to change it. Any advice? [/quote]
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