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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At what age is it a red flag that a man has never been married? I used to think I wanted to only date men who had never been married. I'm 29 so that's very reasonable. However, the few men I've gone on dates in their late mid to late thirties who have never been married seem to have commitment issues/Peter Pan syndrome. So it made realize at some point it's probably a red flag a man has never been married. Maybe early forties? Or earlier than that? Or in your opinion, is there never an age it's weird a man hasn't married.[/quote]

I think it is better that a man is hesitant than to jump into an early marriage that ends badly. I love DH, but his first marriage was very young (22) and nearly all of our issues rooted in him rather than me, albeit they are few, come from his ideas about marriage as a twenty-something vs. people in our 50s. He’s my second husband and worlds better than my first (I married at 29). In some ways, it is easier dealing with men who are set in their ways after decades of single adulthood. At least you know what you are getting. Our issues rooted in me are half that I’m set in my ways. DH has that age 22-25 and on the military mindset that we can just pickup and move our lives someplace else if one of us wants to. I’m the one who doesn’t want to. He moved a lot after his divorce both when he was still in the military and afterwards. In fact, his last big move was to be close to me so I feel bad. But I digress.[/quote]

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