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[quote=Anonymous]Are you the messer or the messee? My DH is a mess-maker. It is the single biggest friction point in our marriage. I thought a bigger house would help, but that just results in bigger messes. We hired a cleaning company for the important things (clean is more important than neat, IMO). And we have divided the house into zones. After 15 years he finally gets that his crap needs to not be in the living room, kitchen, or all over the bedroom. The basement and garage are like something out of hoarders, however, and I don’t go to either place. It is REALLY hard because I’m OCD neat. But I love him more than I hate the mess. And I’m putting this one in the “for better or worse” bucket.[/quote]
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