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Reply to "really, how much for elem school teachers (public) and prek (private) (NOVA)"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does anyone else find this gift giving to teachers so bizarre? I can't believe there aren't more limits. As a social worker we have ethical rules about this kind of thing (and it basically amounts to no gift giving or very little). This is because there are power dynamics at play. I realize teaching is different and has different boundaries, different power issues but I still find it so strange that there is an expectation to give really significant gifts. I completely agree that teachers are underpaid, but I don't think holiday gifts are somehow leveling that field. But it certainly puts families who earn more and less on unequal footing and just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I don't want to be a cheapskate so I try to give a gift but just sharing my internal feelings about it because.. I guess that's what dcum is for.[/quote] I agree with this. I do give gift certificates to day care teachers but I think salaried public school teachers are a different story. [/quote]
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