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[quote=Anonymous]Not on my birthday but my mom becomes really terrible whenever one of her children gets married or has a baby. There are reasons I've figured out for her behavior but it doesn't change how hard it is on us to have our mom become very selfish and vicious suddenly when we are experiencing something that should be celebratory and happy, and it would be nice to feel like our mom was happy for us. It sounds like your mom has issues with a capital "I" and needs to deal with them. She probably won't (mine hasn't). But I recommend learning to detach from her behavior, as it really has very little to do with you. Take that check, cash it, and spend the money on something that makes you happy. Throw those nasty cards in the trash can. Don't answer her calls on your birthday and call her back a week later saying you got busy. Let her figure out her issues on her own and don't let her try to work them out on you. I'm sorry you are dealing with this.[/quote]
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