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Reply to "Question for the smart girls who snag the good guys early in life "
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[quote=Anonymous]Nobody taught me, it's just what I wanted. I considered someone marriage material if he envisioned marriage in his future. I wanted kids in my mid-30s and would openly talk about that, dismissing anyone who didn't want the same. People who are organized, responsible, have good executive functioning, and know how to have fun without ruining the next day with a bad hangover. Good-enough social skills, doesn't have to be super smooth. Nobody with undiagnosed ADHD, nobody with an addiction, nobody who habitually lies or blames others for their shortcomings. You don't have to have "everything planned out"-- life seldom goes to plan. You're looking for someone with the core personality traits to manage life well, and someone who wants the same things as you, whatever that may be. The essential thing is not to spend time dating people who aren't marriage material and don't want the same things that you do. Get rid of those guys as quick as you can, to clear the way for the good matches.[/quote]
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