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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If it's not to your taste, fine. But many women do this. And many men. I don't see making a big issue of it. What's wrong with it? She's not sleeping with the dancers. If you don't want to go, just don't go. But take off your judge's robes. You are going to have a long relationship with this woman. Would you like to be judged on your Bachelorette party? Ridiculous.[/quote] I agree, and say this as someone who hates strip clubs. I don't particularly care if other people go, but for myself I find it awful. I went to a very good friend's bachelorette at a crossdresser strip club. The worst part was not the stripping, there actually wasn't much of that. It was the way they called up all the brides to be (there were a bunch) onto a stage and asked them questions -- all of which had to do with their "catch" and his job, their identity as Mrs. X-to-be, and their virginity and the fact that soon they'd have a -- gasp -- PENIS inserted into them on their wedding night. It was supposed to be funny and joking and I guess a lot of people thought it was, because everyone except me and one other girl were laughing. I thought it was one of the most stupid and demeaning events I'd ever been to. I swore I'd never go to another. But my friend enjoyed it, and that's what matters. I tried to look like I was enjoying myself , and I would never breathe a word to her that I thought her bachelorette party was revolting and beneath her. In the future I would probably try to bow out of such events, but I'd just offer a run-of-the-mill excuse without saying why. No need to make your SIL feel you're judging her. If you need to, schedule some small event of your own so that you have a legitimate excuse for why you can't make it. Work events are always good candidates.[/quote]
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