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[quote=Anonymous]You need to own your choices. You could have tried for a baby earlier; you decided you needed more money first. Revealed preferences are a thing. And I don't just mean that in a "get over yourself" way: accepting that you made the choices you did for reasons that apparently seemed valid and compelling means you're not a helpless victim. You're a person with agency who made decisions based on what you knew and valued and given your circumstances and constraints. Also, you don't say how long you've been trying, but many people have first babies at 35/36. [/quote]
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