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Reply to "Tell me how you got through a rough patch in your marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous]I'd start with: "Honey, I've been missing you lately and would love for us to get some extra time together. What would you enjoy?" See what she says and maybe have some backup ideas in case she doesn't have any. If possible for you with childcare, maybe even do a weekend away. If she tries to invite others, tell her you are fine setting up a separate plan with those people but you want this to be just you. If she refuses, then yes I think you have a bigger issue. But she might just be tired and overwhelmed. I'm a busy tired mom but cannot imagine refusing my husband if he came to me and said "I made a reservation at [favorite restaurant] and I really want to take you out on Saturday. I'll order the kids some pizza." I would be over the moon. [/quote]
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