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[quote=Anonymous]Yikes!!! Echoing what others have said I’d start individual therapy and also start living like you’re a single mom - make friends with other single moms, spend lots of time with your girlfriends, maybe join a family-friendly church/synagogue/etc to build your community. Maybe you'll find you’re happier in the day to day once you drop all expectations of him and let go of the idea of “family time” like you envisioned it. I had to do this for different reasons - my DH is an engaged dad, but untreated anxiety makes him difficult/impossible to spend pleasant time with. Letting go of expectations and building my own life apart from him allowed me to find enough peace and happiness to avoid splitting up our family unit and taking the financial hit of divorce. You might not be able to do that and I get it since he sounds like the worst man child on earth and I’d resent the hell out of it. Good luck with whatever you decide, you don’t deserve this,[/quote]
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