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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Truthfully don’t understand what divorce solves. Now you’re a single mom raising an infant spending money and time on and in court. That’s the life you did sign up for? I think you’re past the point of getting the life you wanted. Not to mention the statistics of kids growing up in a broken home are ABYSMAL. Most of life is dealing with consequences from earlier decisions - both good and bad. You married him knowing what he was like, and brought a child into that relationship. It’s not just about you anymore. [/quote]

I agree with this. You’ll still have to coparent with him. And here’s the thing - your child will blame him Or herself for the divorce for the rest of their life. You owe it to your child to try and make it work. Right now you have black and white thinking. Family time versus me time. You want one, he wants another. Y’all need to compromise. Give each other breaks each weekend. Each parent gets 2-3 hours of me time and then you do a family event/activity. Also, have you both been evaluated for PTSD or had counseling from the trauma of your first child? Those are deep wounds and are a part of the puzzle of figuring out what’s going on in your marriage. [/quote]

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