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[quote=Anonymous]My husband and I have been on the brink of divorce after each of our kids were born. Kids do a lot to damage a marriage, and they weaken cracks that were there before. You need a therapist stat, just for you. Don’t make any decisions until everyone is getting 8 hours of sleep per night for at least a few months. This may take years (did for us). Sleep deprivation and adjusting to a new baby take a toll. Your hair and hasn’t yet evolved to be the dad he needs to be. Does he have role models? Dad friends? Mentors? What’s his relationship with his dad? He’s clearly avoiding you and the baby and there’s probably a lot going on with that. But you can’t fix him, just work on yourself. [/quote]
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