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[quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry OP. No, this ish normal at all (not to mention deeply unfair to you). It sounds like you are deeply regretful for noting this behavior pre-baby and expecting him to change, but take it easy on yourself (and ignore the grumps who blame you for this). There is an adjustment period for ALL people when a baby comes around, and it can be impossible to predict who will change and who will not. Based on what you’ve said, it doesn’t look like he will change. That is up to you to decide whether you should stay or go, but it does seem that he’s expressed that he will not change. Unless you are willing to accept his behavior and pivot to being in a marriage where you are essentially a single mom, it seems that now is the time to consider leaving as you’ve given him plenty of time to change and he has given you plenty of evidence that he will not. I am so sorry. This should be a happy time for you, and I know the age can be tough to handle solo. Hugs. [/quote]
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