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[quote=Anonymous]Met a guy on OLD.  Went out for 1st date last night.  Drinks turned into dinner and we chatted for about 3 hours.  From an appearance standpoint, the idea of sleeping with him doesn't repulse me.  So in short, everything was fine.  Until the end when he didn't walk me to my car at 11 at night.  He was parked in a different floor of the garage and hugged me good bye in the elevator.

My thoughts this morning---if he can't be bothered to walk me to my car after a nice first date, it's probably not something that's important to him.  Is it really important to me?  Did I not feel safe walking to my car?  The answer to both of those is no but I wanted/expected the gesture.

The second thought is Roy telling Rebecca she deserves better than fine.  Yes I know that is fiction and what happens on tv doesn't always exist in reality.  The date was fine.  He was pleasant to talk with.  But there was no spark.  This morning I'm rather ambivalent about seeing him again. Given a choice, I'd have a hard time picking between going out with him on an evening or staying home by myself and watching tv.

What say you DCUM?  Are my expectations for the gesture too high, not realistic?  Is fine good enough or am I supposed to feel excited about seeing someone again?  He's already asked to go out again.  I haven't responded yet.[/quote]

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