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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly, my dad chose to drink and suffer the health consequences. We supported him in that choice. He’s 80 years old with a bunch of health issues that will likely kill him within the year. He’s a very functional alcoholic - unless you are counting you’d never guess how much he drinks as he’s always in control, doesn’t get mean, and doesn’t drive (though that used to be a concern). The drinking has contributed to his poor health and he has cut back some for health reasons on his own accord, but it helps with the pain associated with his conditions and has brought him enjoyment for a lifetime. It may hasten his death, but he’s not hurting anyone but himself and none of my siblings or I think it’s worth it to intervene. We’re just enjoying the time we have left with him and making him comfortable, which includes pouring the wine.

I could see why it would be worth intervening in other situations and am not necessarily saying we’re doing things right, but that’s where we are.[/quote]

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