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[quote=Anonymous]I stopped at 1, born when I was 34. Around 38-39 I felt able to handle another. TTC didn't work out and I'm kinda grateful because now in my early 40s I definitely don't have energy for a toddler/PKer. Life is good with an only. So, my vote is for 1 kid. If you can't stop at 1, though, I'd say charge ahead and do the second ASAP so they're almost at the same stage and you avoid age related infertility. Also, I did the law firm thing for a while + have a spouse who spends too much money. From experience, I strongly recommend you work or maintain the ability to work, so DH has the option to leave the firm and so you aren't stuck financially if he starts gambling or leaves you or whatever. [/quote]
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