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[quote=Anonymous]My ILs are nice people, but they are so different from me and my family. FIL is very rigid, he is obese and will only eat pig and beef products - no vegetables, pasta and bread. He is constantly in the hospital with heart issues. He also wont walk or do any exercise, and basically cannot sleep bc so large. He is also inflex about most things. MIL does not try to interfere, is very passive. they come to stay with us and always bring their own chairs and a cooler with their own products in it (even though we buy the same products for them). they also always arrive about 4 hours earlier than we have told them to. FIL asks me zero questions and I think has no interest in or idea what i do. When MIL babysits, she comes with FIL who sits in our small apt watching tv, drinking from his cooler and burping and farting. Bc of this, we have stopped asking them to babysit (too much) for the past 4 years. I feel awful about all this. I feel like a better person would not harbor any of these thoughts. And that most ppl who feel conflicted about their families in law have good reason - eg they are super mean. anyone else have similar situation?[/quote]

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