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[quote=Anonymous]I met my brother's girlfriend yesterday and I like her. The consensus among the family is that she's great.
Of course we all said how nice it was to meet her and have her for dinner. But I mean going beyond that.
However , at least to me, it seems cheesy and incredibly intrusive to say to him" I or we love her. Keep her around."

I don't remember talking about each other's SOs when we were younger. I don't even remember talking about SIL before they married.  granted we were all in our 20s back then and she and my husband just sort of joined our group and it was like the next thing we knew we were all married.

This is also the only gf I have heard about or that he's talked about since SIL's passing so I don't want to seem like I'm pressuring him to be in a relationship or more serious than he's ready to be.

I do however think she's great,  seems good with my brother, and meshes well with the family. Though I suppose those are things he can also see and judge for himself.

Next time we talk  I want to mention that it was great meeting her again, but don't know if that's too much.
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