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[quote=Anonymous]OP I relate. We spent years with mom expecting us to be her back up plan for Thanksgiving if she didn't get a better offer. She has even backed out of plans with us or lost it when she got a better offer last minute, didn't tell us and then resented us for including her. Every holiday we have spent with her in the past 5 or 6 years has resulted in her having a tantrum, guilt tripping, giving us digs and/or her bragging about how she is better than I am in every way. After the 100th nastygram from her via text earlier this year I decided...no more. We have stress coming at us from all sides this year-health, work, deaths and we just can't do it anymore. We did not make any effort and when she tried to manipulate her way in, kept boundaries. It will be a peaceful Thanksgiving with good food and more importantly calm. Our teens are thrilled and have resented grandma and her drama for a while. With her no good deed went unpunished. [/quote]
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