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[quote=Anonymous]I agree that it could well be cognitive decline/dementia. It often manifests this way. Though I hope that isn't the case. In terms of what to do, I would stop arguing for one thing - don't try to persuade her that what she believes isn't true. Just kind of lean in or redirect. "I'm so sorry Mom that must feel awful. How about if we take a walk, I've been wanting to see that new house that was just built." You can even say things like "everyone feels awful about that situation Mom, I'm so sorry it's still upsetting you. What can we do to put it behind us? What would help you this week?" etc... Just listen and be sympathetic and then redirect and maybe she will be a bit calmer if not feeling opposition. And, call her doctor and get her in for an evaluation. Tell the doctor what you're seeing and tell him you'd like a cognitive assessment.[/quote]
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