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[quote=Anonymous]My dad has always been an ass to me. He just doesn’t seem to really like me and I annoy him so he’s rude condescending and just not very loving. He thinks my brother is all knowing -which he is great guy- that’s irrelevant but overall he is just dismissive and unkind to me- really have always taken the treatment with grain of salt. My mom is very sweet. But xmàs before Covid he went off on me in front of kids and I had it. So have not talked to him since.
   And he, naturally, never reached or apologized/ didn’t expect that. 
   But my kids love my parents and since my husband and I are older parents, there aren’t many grands left. husbands parents one passed and one in nursing home (we see her weekly but she doesn’t know us).
   But my kids really want my parents to come for xmas. I’m torn. I finally had come to the decison to remove him from my life. 
They are 80 though and my I know time is not on our side-and with Covid they haven’t seen kids much so I’m torn.
  I feel the brain says be the better person and let it go and have your kids happy invite them.  But I also feel like it’s so wrong he treat anyone like he treats me- what would you do?

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