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My cousin and his exwife had a daughter 9 years ago. Because of family drama I never met her. Now my cousins back in my life and i get to see their daughter. But i dont get to see his exwife. I think its weird that i hangout with the daughter and her mom isnt in my life. It would be weird if i contacted her? Shes gonna think im a weirdo. But their daughter doesnt feel comfortsble when shes with her dads side of the family. Because he has 2 new kids. 
I just want the 9 year old to feel safe and welcomed. Shes my relative after all

Shes 42 and is nice. I knew her 10 years ago. [/quote]

You seem like a nice, considerate person, but it might be wise to ask your cousin first or, at the very least, inform him of your intentions prior to contacting her.

It must be difficult for the 9 year old daughter.[/quote]

She doesn't seem nice and considerate about her own cousin. OP, your attitude is toxic. You are going to poison your relationship with your cousin if you become friends with is ex behind his back. Then you won't hang out with his daughter at all. What an idiotic, toxic plan. Is that really how you treat your own family members? "She's my relative after all." With relatives like you, who needs ex's.[/quote]

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