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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh and just to make you feel better, my sister is useless. My brother is no longer with us (he passed away). Also, my sister gaslights me and then when mom finally shows her dark side to my sister, my sister blames me and says it's because mom is hurt I don't do more. So basically my sibling has added more stress to my life and has simultaneously manipulated our mom-long story. Lots of dysfunction. So, don't assume if you had a sibling and lived in the same country/town this would be easier.[/quote]

OMG, I am so sorry you’re going through this. [b]I have a sister too, who lives only 30 minutes from my mother but she only sees her 2 hours per week and that’s it. She already said she won’t take on any work (despite no kids and easy job, and short distance), so I didn’t even mention her.[/quote][/b]

How is your mom in terms of temperament right now? If she is challenging, I don't blame your sister for having boundaries. Two hours a week is kind of her to be honest and just because she is single doesn't mean she doesn't have a life of her own. If your mom is challenging then be prepared to pay caregivers more and give more tips. Also be open to medication. It is very important to make sure the person isn't abusive to anyone and meds can help with quality of life. Do you have friends in the area where your mom is who might know the best aging care resources for you to contact? Is your mom open to things like continued care retirement facilities?[/quote]

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