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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the child of divorce is older than your bio kids, OP, the best thing you can do is learn about age-appropriate behavior and parenting.  So many stepmothers make the mistake of getting judgey and blamey and resentful about what is really just normal teen behavior.  The substance of your parenting ability is far more important than whether you spend time together socially.[/quote]

This has nothing to do with OP’s post. [/quote]

The OP is focusing on something that doesn't really matter.  That's what it has to do with OP's post.

OP, also consider that the children may know (or believe) a different account of the divorce, and that theirs may be more accurate than what you think you know.  If spending time together feels good to you, great, but consider that the children may be working hard to conceal the discomfort that they feel.  They don't really have a choice in whether it occurs, and their true feelings may not be permitted by their parents.[/quote]

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