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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I used to live in San Francisco and saw women maybe ten years older than me who had so much to offer and were single.  They were beautiful, athletic, great jobs, the whole thing.  And yet every guy I knew who wanted a girlfriend had one, even if they were schlubby, unemployed, whatever.   I saw the writing on the wall and moved away.

In some cities the demographics just don’t work in a woman’s favor.  [/quote]

It's true, a lot of it is demographics.  I also think part of it is truly men being intimidated.  I know this is a well-trodden cliche, but that's for a reason.  IMO a lot of men want to be in a relationship that doesnt threaten their ego- a high earning, beautiful, fit woman who is confident and well spoken is going to hold her own in the relationship.  A needy, insecure woman, with a less important job, earning less money, maybe less attractive, is probably going to sense this and bend herself over backwards for her man.  And at the end of the day, THAT is what a lot of men want from a woman.  Some woman he knows will baby him, run around after him, and treat him like a king, even if he's a slob or a loser.  [/quote]

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