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[quote=Anonymous]Attracted to all genders = pansexual which is queer
poly alone is not queer though some alloscishet people think it is.

Polyamory is very common in the queer community.  The above pp said that she personally thinks it's bunk because humans aren't "wired that way" is, I think, making a statement that's way too broad.  While I don't think it's fair to say no human is happy like this, I do think that it's safe to say most aren't.

Is this nonbinary person AFAB?  Most of the heterosexual couples that want to be poly are really just looking to add a third, almost always a woman.  It's called unicorn hunting.  Do they actually see this person as nonbinary or do they consider them their AGAB?

While I'm queer, I'm quite mono myself so I'm not an expert on poly relationships but some people do work well with them.  OP, the description you're talking about sounds like it might not be the best relationship because often time these closed poly triad relationships often end up with one partner hurt.  My understanding is that most people that are in poly relationships aren't into closed triads since they're just trying to get a unicorn to spice up a straight couple's sex life while controlling the third person and refusing to allow them to have poly relationships outside of the triad (the closed part).  There's a power imbalance in these relationships.

Regardless of what you saw, it's definitely better to stay out of it and provide moral support when and if needed.  Don't try to insert yourself or your opinion into the middle of this triangle.  Nothing good can come of that.  From my perspective, it's a lot better to be there for people from the outside when they need me than to be right in the middle of something like this.[/quote]

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