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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve never done this. But I have a new coworker and we just click. In every sense. He makes me feel like I’m 18 again with my first love…. Not the middle age married soccer mom that I am now.  I’m deeply infatuated.

My marriage is blah, but DH is a nice guy. Coworker is also married, lives a plane ride away (we travel together sometimes), and while he shows signs of interest we both try hard not to acknowledge it - though I’m the one who holds back. It’s hard because we have to work together and I’m constantly coming up with excuses why I can’t collaborate when the reality is that I can only think of NSFW stuff when he calls and we are supposed to be reviewing spreadsheets…

It’s distracting and I want it to end this feeling and either a) move on with my boring dead marriage existence of driving kids to suburban soccer games or b) just do this already. [b]But, I don’t feel like I can let my guard down because I could be wrong - he could just be nice and I’m interpreting nice as something more.[/b]

Any advice from someone who has been there done that?

I’m thinking of getting therapy. [/quote]

Meh. Form a clear mental image of him taking a nice big dump. Or leaving his toenail clippings laying around.

Take a look at the bolded. THIS is why you don't want to go for it-- fear of rejection? Rather than fear of losing your marriage...

Avoid him as much as you can, and focus on therapy and your marriage.[/quote]

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