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[quote=Anonymous]What's the worst result that can come out of this situation? What's the next worst result? Can the child and I both live with either result? Do they have the tools to deal with this on their own? If so, I need to stand back. If not, what does this child actually [b]need [/b]from me in this situation? Do they need a question or two posed for scaffolding, so that they can recognize that it's similar to a prior situation? Do they need me to listen, write while they brainstorm, ask questions so that they can see different angles? Do they need a hug, a cuddle, to be hands off? What will show them that I support them and help if necessary, but I can't solve their problems for them?[/quote]
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